Life-affirming
"having or showing a positive outlook that encourages optimism about life"
- Collins Dictionary
Life-affirming
"having or showing a positive outlook that encourages optimism about life"
- Collins Dictionary
'Awakenings', as it is aptly named, is a movie intended to give its audience a sort of "wake up call" towards what we tend to overlook and/or take for granted in life:
"... That the human spirit is more powerful than any drug. And that is what needs to be nourished. With work, play, friendship, family."
"These are the things that matter.
This is what we've forgotten.
The simplest things."
- Dr. Sayer
Every few years or so, there will come films that give you a sense of life-affirmation; films that make you take a step back & really put things into perspective, showing what should really matter to you & to stop focusing on what you could've done differently but rather what you can do now.
One such film that springs to mind is 'The Secret Life of Walter Mitty'.
It's about a man named Walter Mitty who has let a good portion of his life pass idly by.
He daydreams about unrealistic scenarios in his head, referred to by people around him as "zoning out", which he does quite often.
It isn't until he's about to be forcefully retired & faced with the task of developing the negative film used by a renowned photographer for the last issue of Life Magazine, that he is forced into situations he only dreams of ever doing while trying to track down the photographer to complete his career's final work.
He daydreams about unrealistic scenarios in his head, referred to by people around him as "zoning out", which he does quite often.
It isn't until he's about to be forcefully retired & faced with the task of developing the negative film used by a renowned photographer for the last issue of Life Magazine, that he is forced into situations he only dreams of ever doing while trying to track down the photographer to complete his career's final work.
In an interesting twist, the negative that was meant to be cover for the final issue was in fact a picture of him. The irony of this is that Walter Mitty didn't really have much of a 'life' until he was thrown into one unpredictable adventure after the other.
These adventures reconnected him with his previous interests & he realizes that it's time to stop thinking and dreaming, & to finally just do; to live life. At the end of the movie he finally gets the courage to ask out the coworker he had been secretly crushing on.
The parallels in the two films are quite interesting:
It usually begins with an unlikely scenario that pushes the main character (and/or other characters) out of their mundane routines. Somewhere down the road someone who is a (not very integral) part of their life confronts // presents them with 'wise words of wisdom' that jolts them awake from the 'trance' that they were in, making them reflect on how they've been living, or lack thereof. Finally, in the end the main characters get a happy ending in their own personal life, but not for the movie per say, which essentially portrays what is like in real life: sometimes we win some, & other times we lose.
Life & Death
The message from this movie is quite simple & straightforward, & there are many scenes in this movie that will make a person do a quick evaluation of their life and their priorities, wondering if they have lost sight of what is truly important in life.
At one point in the movie, this message about life is blatantly pointed out that it would be difficult to ignore:
At one point in the movie, this message about life is blatantly pointed out that it would be difficult to ignore:
"We've got to remind them how good it is ...
People have forgotten what life is all about.
They've forgotten what it is to be alive.
They need to reminded of what they have, of what they can lose."- Leonard Lowe
This movie was set during the period of the Vietnam war, judging from the brief scenes with protesting hippies. Almost 50 years later and these words are still relevant today, even more so with more distractions, more worries, and even higher and tougher demands.
It is very easy to take things for granted nowadays. The world is so fast-paced that many people get swept up in it, settling into routines that do not add quality to their lives. Their spirit worn down from doing things because they should be done & not because it makes them happy, and yet everyone yearns for happiness, wishing that they're living a different lives, thinking of all the 'what ifs' and 'if onlys' they could have done [counterfactual thinking] (Epstude & Roese, 2008).
We have all been Dr. Sayer at one point or another in our lives: unable to step out of his comfort zone, hesitating & over deliberating simple things because we lacked the courage to act on it or because of the unpredictability. In situations like these, some people never really do and opportunities just pass them by. Some eventually are able to muster up the courage to just do it, while some need a 'Leonard' in their life to remind them to seize whatever opportunity is presented to them instead of over-analyzing it due to the element of uncertainty.
"No look at yourself. I have a sickness ... But you have no excuse."- Leonard
Through Leonard, Dr. Sayer finally lets go of his inhibitions & asks nurse Eleanor out for coffee.
Parkes, Lasker & Marshall (1990) |
Similarly, many of us are also like Leonard pre-awakening:
"The rest of the time he remained as you see him here, in a metaphorical, if not physiological, equivalent of sleep, or even death."
- Dr. Sayer
We may not have a "sickness" like Leonard, but metaphorically speaking we are in many ways just like him: functioning on autopilot from out day-to-day lives, doing things that have become so habitual that they've become part of our subconscious. Unfortunately, it is how we humans are wired. If we had to consciously process the constant abundance of stimuli around us, our brains won't be able to handle the cognitive overload. As a result, we do many things on a subconscious level as it is our brain's way of being efficient.
Even when we are asleep, our brains are still subconsciously reorganizing and processing information that we've taken in throughout the day. Whenever we are mentally stuck on a problem and we decide to come back to it at a later time, our brains are also subconsciously still working on the problem, leading to those "Ah-ha!" moments.
Dr. Sayer's "Ah-ha!" moment
When we do snap out of the 'zombie-like' state that we're so used to and notice the finer things in life, for a short moment it can feel as though we have just been born again and are experiencing something familiar differently as if it were the first time.
Leonard's first steps out of the hospital in 30 years
In life, we are also like Mrs. Lowe:
When good things happen we usually don't ask why it happens, we just appreciate and accept things as it is. Conversely, when bad things happen, humans have a tendency to question why it has to happen, as they gradually try to make sense of it and get over their disbelief (or not).
"When my son was born healthy, I never asked why ... But when he got sick, you can bet I asked why, I demanded to know why."
- Mrs. Lowe
There are also other perspectives and approaches (mental attitudes) to life are portrayed through the characters in this movie:
All in all, ultimately it is your decision on how you want to live your life.
You can choose to long for something that cannot happen:
"I just need it to be" - Lucy Fishman |
Or you could spend it with your friends and family:
Rose & her friends |
(Assuming) Frank's grandson |
Rolando & his cat |
And cherish every fleeting moment:
Paula & Leonard dancing together |
Just remember that no matter you decide to do with your life, eventually:
"It's [Life] given and taken away from all of us."
- Eleanor Costello
- Extras -
Did you catch this? 😏
Keep your eyes on the house of cards.
Operant Conditioning
Remember Waheedah? She does not like pens.As can be seen she has a very unpleasant reaction when she saw the pen. Thus, through negative reinforcement, everyone has been conditioned to hide their pens to avoid her screaming (Ciccarelli & White, 2014).
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References
Ciccarelli, S. K., & White, J. N. (2014). Psychology (4th ed.). New Jersey: Pearson Education.
Epstude, K., & Roese, N. J. (2008). The functional theory of counterfactual thinking. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 12(2), 168-192. doi:10.1177/1088868308316091
Life-affirming. (n.d.). In Collins Dictionary. Retrieved from https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/life-affirming
Parkes, W. F., & Lasker, L. (Producers), & Marshall, P. (Director). (1990). Awakenings [Motion picture]. United States: Columbia Pictures.